Let Them Go

We are taught to be the bigger person or the better person at the detriment of our own emotional well-being.

This mindset can be useful. In a lot of cases, it invites bullying. When we were children, we were told to ignore bullies. Never show them weakness. Never show them they won. Unfortunately, this programming does not work with bullies.

Bullies can grow up to be narcissists and abusers. They get to say and do what they want. So while we are being the better person by ignoring them, their angry and hurtful actions are affecting us by causing subconscious blocks and trauma.

There is nothing wrong with being the bigger person in a situation and walking away from negativity or drama. The problem is when the behavior comes from friends and family. This is where walking away can become difficult.

We all have that one family member that can say very disrespectful th9ings. You show up to a family function and instantly cringe when you see them. Your family will tell you, “Oh they can’t help it. Just ignore them.”, as they continue berating and disrespecting you. This is the problem with society. You have people who go through life destroying people in their path. Then you have the other ones who ignore.

The truth is we do not have to accept or ignore abusive behavior. That is the program’s way of keeping us docile and complacent. You have every right to protect your emotional and physical health from harm!

I don’t care how old a person is. I don’t care how “set in their ways” they are. If they are disrespecting you, please remove them from not only your personal space but also your life. Refuse to place yourself in toxic situations.

Accountability seems to be nonexistent in this scapegoat society. Instead of blaming their unhealed trauma or toxic behavior for their actions, they blame the devil. It is time for humanity as a whole to accept full accountability for every decision made.

Be the bigger person by removing toxic behaviors and people from your life. Be the bigger person by blocking that individual who doesn’t value your worth. Be the bigger person by leaving the job that refused to give you a raise. Be the bigger person and accept your divine purpose as an infinite being having a human experience.